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To Be AND Not To Be, That Is the Answer
Read more: To Be AND Not To Be, That Is the AnswerWhether something waits for us on the other side of this life is one of the oldest and most personal questions a human being can carry. This is not an attempt to answer it. People of deep faith and people of none have both looked honestly at existence and come to different conclusions, and that…
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You Don’t Have To March To Matter
Read more: You Don’t Have To March To MatterThere is a story, perhaps apocryphal, about a group of macaque monkeys on a small Japanese island. Researchers observed that when one monkey learned to wash sweet potatoes before eating them, others nearby began to do the same. The behavior spread slowly, then reached some kind of threshold, and suddenly the practice appeared in populations…
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A Letter To Our Kids: What We’ve Learned About Retirement Now That We’ve Arrived
Read more: A Letter To Our Kids: What We’ve Learned About Retirement Now That We’ve ArrivedTo our children and future generations: We want to begin this note to you with a large dose of humility and transparency. We were ill-prepared in our own lives to ask the right financial questions with wisdom. We lived during a time when the prevailing American mindset was to live for today and trust that…
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From Moral Righteousness to the Heart
Read more: From Moral Righteousness to the HeartLarry and I have been watching The Traitors together in the evenings. We know it’s a game. We know deception is built into the rules. No one is violating anything. And yet, as we sit there on the couch, I can feel it happen in my body before it ever reaches my mind. Tightening. Judgment.…
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For Those Who’d Like to Get to the True Heart of Valentine’s Day
Read more: For Those Who’d Like to Get to the True Heart of Valentine’s DaySaint Valentine didn’t die of a broken heart. He was executed as a martyr for his Christian faith. The love story came later, shaped by poets, culture, and eventually, marketing. That small historical detail doesn’t ruin Valentine’s Day. It simply helps explain how a third-century execution turned into chocolates, dinner reservations, roses, and emotional expectations…
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A is for Autism
Read more: A is for AutismA Sixty-Year-Old’s Season of Learning For most of my life, autism was something I thought I understood in a general way. It was a diagnosis associated with children, schools, and specialists. It wasn’t something I connected to my own story. That changed gradually, through watching my grandchildren. I have thirteen grandchildren. Every one of them…
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Expectation and Aspiration
Read more: Expectation and AspirationLearning How We Meet What Is Still Unfolding Over the years, during times of moving homes and navigating major life transitions, I’ve noticed something that continues to shape how I meet uncertainty. The outer circumstances often vary, timelines, logistics, negotiations, waiting. What remains surprisingly consistent is how much the experience itself is shaped less by…
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The Place Between Moments
Read more: The Place Between MomentsWe talk often about now as if it were something we could hold. We tell ourselves to “be present,” to “live in the moment,” as though now were a location we could arrive at and remain in. But the moment we try to grasp it, it is already gone. Watch the second hand on a…
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One Event, Many Meanings
Read more: One Event, Many MeaningsThere are moments when events in the world land heavily, not because they are new, but because they reveal something enduring about human nature. Writing, in those moments, can serve less as expression and more as careful observation. What follows is offered in that spirit. It seems that the prevailing way views are shared now…
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Turn on, tune in, drop out
Read more: Turn on, tune in, drop outThis morning I listened to a 1967 roundtable discussion featuring Alan Watts, Gary Snyder, Timothy Leary, and Allen Ginsberg. You can listen to it here: 👉 Alan Watts – Being in the Way: 1967 Roundtable Discussion It was a moment in history charged with urgency. The United States was deep in the Vietnam War. Protests…
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